there are so many things in this world standing as a subjective issue... where there is no really black and white and its located at the grey area.. again, without any prominent boundry..
as an example.. if u look at one girl.. from his physical appearance and after a quick assessment, u will conclude that that girl is ugly... but, how u can confirm this fellow is ugly... so.. u want to ask your other friend opinion.. "hey dude.. see dat girl.. very ugly one!!!!" and your friend also agree.. and u ask another friend and the friend will ask the other friends and all of u make a conclusion that that girl is ugly and uninteresting... and u will tend to make a comparison.. of coz.. with the one from the other pole.. the one who will make u sing "can't take my eyes out of u.. " but again.. this all subjective one... u cant prove that girl is ugly by herself only.. u always need another extreme to make a comparison.. but again.. and again.. its all subjective one....
today ur mum cook for u.. then u eat.. eat and eat.. u really hungry ma.. then.. suddenly ur mum ask u... eh, how was my cook today? delicioius or not???... then.. she ask more.. after 24 years i cook for u.. do u have any complaint about my cooking??? then.. wat should u answer leh????
1. u will complaint.. eh.. tak sedap la mak.. itu makcik kiah masak lagi sedap.. kalau hari2 makcik kiah masak lagi best... but.. everyday u still to eat ur mum cook right? and if u not eat.. u will starving.. and u will eventually die... but.. u have no choice.. u still need to eat to survive.. but.. now.. after u complaint.. wat will your mother feel??? is she happy??? or she might mogok and dun want to cook for you anymore and let u die? or worst.. if she still cook for u.. but she put a sure kill poison into ur meal... then wat will happen to u la?
2. if ur mum really sporting.. and good and very responsible.. she will accept ur complaint... take a culinary course.. or learn from your grandmother how to cook better.. and if she really can not, she will hire mak kiah so dat mak kiah will cook for u everyday.. and u sure will enjoy the food... but.. how many mother are like dat one? mother always sensitive one.. luckily my mum really sporting one.. even sumtimes i do complaint to her, of coz after she ask my honest opinion la.. she will take it as a part of parcel of cooking stuff.. biasa la.. masak, kadang termasin or tertawar or tak cukup pedas la.. <-- (i really byk complaint one.. sori)... but i dun think she really take it hard because.. even i complaint a bit.. i still tambah until 3 plates when im at home.. of coz.. dat how we appriciate her cook after she spend her time and energy to cook for us right? but.. that mum la.. very different story one..
so... life is difficult and difficult la.. but.. honesty is the best policy...
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